First year anniversary coming up. How is it? Great! Our wedding day was definitely the best day of my life. It was all pre-planned and all i had to do was relax. Truly, the happiest time, surrounded by my best friends, closest family and a whole new family. Even the monkeys were dressed up and present at the reception. The timing worked and the whole day went off without a glitch(that i know of).
The next day, Al made breakfast at the house, while most hungover and others left town. Wagner adjusted to his new home and our moms awoke satisfied, knowing all is going to be fine with their children... eagerly anticipating grand kids. This day after, was also my birthday. I had completely forgotten. To me, our wedding day became my new birthday. I had been reborn into a whole new life. Gone from taking care of myself and looking out for #1, to providing for US, OUR future, what WE will do or WE will need. Thirty-eight years of flying solo, being independent and making decisions for myself, out the window. Now, i'm part of the team. A partnership. Happily, it's WE time.
I'm lucky. I'm rich. Not in dollars, but i'm wealthy in the sense of having a group of the best friends anyone could ask for. I've got the longest friendships from many different chapters of my life. I couldn't pick any one over the other. It just wouldn't be fair. And then it dawned on me one day... I had married my best friend.
She may be another chapter in my life, the nitty-gritty part, the hook, the good part when i just can't put this book down... ever. Friends move on and move away. My best friend, closest confidant, my partner in life... I couldn't imagine sharing my body, my soul, my life with anyone else. Thank God she's picky. Thank God she picked me. I'm the lucky one. Happy Anniversary, Baby. I love you.